~ Bedroom Tip 36 ~ Aphrodite's Ladder

If you've ever made love on a set of stairs, you're already aware of some

of the incredible positions you can come up with. Here's a romantic
technique that guarantees the two of you will never walk up that
particular flight the same way again.

Here's What You Need:

One flight of stairs.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. You, too.

Have your woman sit on the second stair from the bottom (this may vary
depending on your respective heights, but the second stair usually works
best).

You remain standing at the bottom of the staircase. Lean forward and
place your hands on either side of your woman, like you're doing an
inclined push-up.
Prepare to enter you woman. Before you do, though, you must tell her
the following:

"On each of these steps is one of the reasons that I love you. Whenever
you like, move up another step and I will give you another reason. I love
you because..." and then give her your first reason.
Now you may enter your woman. After about thirty seconds, she's going
to push herself up to the next step. When she does, you must give her
your next reason. Then you may take a step up, enter her again and
continue.

Your woman can have as many orgasms as she likes, but YOU must wait
until she is perched at the top of the staircase before you can have yours.
Only then have you successfully climbed Aphrodite's Ladder

~ Bedroom Tip #33 ~ The Minnesota Mindbender

Here's a technique that originated around the Twin Cities area. As it

grows in popularity, there could be a movement to change the state
slogan to, "The Land Of 10,000 Lays."


Here's What You Need:


A set of Vikings bed sheets are optional.


Here's How You Do It:


Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent
and legs slightly apart.
Lie down on your stomach, perpendicular to your woman. Your head
should be positioned sideways above her vagina.
Using your thumb and forefinger, pull back the skin that hides the clitoris.

Moisten your lips and press them against both sides of her clitoris,

drawing it into your mouth.

Gently roll your lips inward, covering your teeth. At the same time raise

your head until her clitoris comes out from between your lips.

Repeat again and again as fast as you can. If you're applying the right

amount of pressure to her clitoris, you'll probably hear a little popping

sound when you open your mouth.

This one may take some practice. But, done correctly, it can easily

produce one leg-quivering orgasm after another.

~Bedroom tip #30 ~ Auto-erotica

There are a lot of cars out there with automatic sunroofs. Hopefully,
yours is one of them. If not, find an excuse to rent one for a day; it'll be
worth every penny.

Here's What You Need:
One car with a sunroof.

Here's How You Do It:
Park where nobody can see you and open up the sunroof. Since you've
got a radio within arm's length, put on some appropriate music.
Get your woman naked, or at least bottomless.
Have her climb up on the roof and sit on the back edge of the sunroof,
facing the hood (her feet can rest comfortably against the windshield).
Get into the passenger's seat and kneel, facing the trunk. Now raise your
head up between her legs. Using your mouth and tongue, pleasure her
like you never have before. Let her enjoy all the unique sensations: the
height, the danger, the smooth metal and glass against her bare skin
and your unique vantage point.
Fifty years from now, she'll still be talking about this one.

~Bedroom Tip 26 ~ Back Seat Driver

Looking for a new position that your woman will go crazy for? Look no
further.

Here's What You Need:
Just the two of you.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. You, too.
Stack a couple of pillows on top of each other and lie back against them
with your legs slightly bent.
Have your woman straddle your hips, facing your feet. Guide her
downward until you are inside of her. Your feet should be outside of
hers; they should pretty much line up.
Now have her lean back a bit, resting her hands against your chest and
holding herself upright.
Begin thrusting. You're going to have to put some effort into it, because
she's naturally going to want to come down on top of you.

~Bedroom tip #25 ~ OrgasM&M

This is a great little game that's not only fun, but will also help you
discover erogenous zones on your woman's body that you never knew
existed.

Here's What You Need:
One piece of candy-coated chocolate, plain variety.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Hand her the candy.
Turn out the lights so that the room is completely dark.
Tell your woman to lie down and hide the candy somewhere on her
body. Depending on where she chooses to hide it, she may need to lick
one side in order for it to stick, remaining in place.
Once the candy is hidden, it's your job to find it using only your tongue.
Glide your tongue over every inch of her body. Take your sweet time.
Pay attention to any reaction that you get -- and where your tongue is
when you get it (this information will be very valuable whenever the two
of you make love in the future).
When you finally locate the candy, keep it on the tip of your tongue and
press it against your woman's clitoris.
Pleasure your woman orally until she melts in your mouth, not in your
hands.

~Bedroom Tip #21~ Oriental Shoe Shine

Here's an incredibly stimulating technique that gets its name from the
back and forth motion you perform with a silk scarf.

Here's What You Need:
One long silk scarf.
One short silk scarf.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Use the short silk scarf to blindfold her and
have her stand with her legs slightly apart.
Now you stand at your woman's side, facing her.
Run the long silk scarf gently over your woman's body. Let her feel it on
her arms, breasts, buttocks and legs. After a couple of minutes, place the
scarf in between your woman's legs. Hold one end in front of her, the
other behind. Essentially, she should be straddling the scarf.
Raise both ends of the scarf above your woman's midsection so that the
middle barely touches her clitoris and vagina. Glide the scarf back and
forth as if you were "buffing" this delicate area. The longer your strokes,
the better.
Next, lie down on your back with your head in between your woman's
feet. Tell her to kneel and, as she does, drape the scarf over your mouth.
Using your hands, guide your woman's hips so that her vagina is
positioned directly above your mouth. Pleasure your woman orally
through the smooth, silk scarf.

~Mirror Mirror on the wall.. Who's the Sexiest of them all ~

Mirror Image

When you look in the mirror who do you see? Do you see the real you are a portrayal of who you think the world ought to see?
When you look, do you hide from the real person looking back at you or do you pretend you are not really you.

You are you. Own it. You came into the world as an individual; An individual soul, with independent thoughts and feelings. Be sure to connect to who you truly are.

Some people are shy and some are boisterous. There is nothing wrong with either of these just as long as you know who you are.

What types of food do you like? How did you find out what you liked and didn’t like? You explored, right?

You experienced different phases in school and now you know what personality best suits you, right?
Do you cook and enjoy it? Bake? Knit, sew, scrapbook?
The only way you will truly know what you like and dislike is by experiencing and experimenting.

What about masturbating? Self pleasure? How do you know if you like it or not if you don’t explore and experiment? Your body belongs to you, it is for you to take care of the best way possible. Which includes your mind and body. Do the things that make you happy. Know what you like.. “KNOW” yourself. Don’t hide from you.. you are you. You belong to you. Ultimately happiness comes from within. You should know how to administer happiness at any moment.

Forget what other people say. They may be hiding themselves, Showing the world a misrepresentation of who they really are. So anything they say may not be coming from the heart. So find yourself. Explore yourself. Give yourself a chance. No need to be shy or embarrassed about yourself. You and you and you belong to you.
You can’t truly know how to be pleased if you don’t know what you like. Your partner goes through the love making motions but may not be touching you just right. You can’t expect someone to know you if you don’t know yourself.

Find your spot. Know your spot, then teach your spot to your partner. Sex is the most intimate thing in the world. The most intimate should also be the most pleasurable. Find out what truly is and reach the level of euphoria that sex is intended to be. Enjoy yourself.

The fact about masturbation :~
masturbation, and orgasms, can help relieve menstrual cramps and migraines, improve your skin tone, help you fall asleep faster, increase your desire for more orgasms, and can even make you multi-orgasmic.

The clitoris is the only organ in the human body designed exclusively for pleasure. With somewhere between 6,000 and 8,000 nerve endingsyou can get a lot of feeling out of your clit. Just be gentle at first. Instead of going directly for the head, rub the shaft. Massage the hood. Turn it on slowly and gently. Insert a finger or two into your vagina if you like the feeling of something inside of you when you masturbate. That's where you'll find the G-spot.

There's an emotional benefit to masturbating, too - you get to work on your fear of intimacy. How? Try imagining a gorgeous, drop-dead amazing person with you. (can be physically or mentally gorgeous) Experience how shy you feel, and slowly work with it, relax, breathe - it's sort of yoga-sex when you treat it as a form of meditation - Tantra. If you're like most women, you'll get even shyer and tense up. This is such a great clue to work with opening up, melting, allowing yourself to be vulnerable to a man, let loose your sensuality - and even doing this a few times will almost completely shift your "vibe" out there in the world.

**Places To Have Sex**

10. In the laundry room:
Sitting on the washer instead of the dryer. When the spin cycle starts, let loose with your guy

9. In your parents' bedroom:
Ask your guy ahead of time to refrain from any phrases like "Who's your daddy?" That's just too close to home for this setting.

8. In a tent:
Since you're screened in and the tent walls may be flimsy, we suggest you keep your sex positions simple. Try Saucy Spoons or Backup Boogie.

7. At a park:
We'll leave you to your own devices for this one. Just be courteous and wipe down the swing when you're done!

6. On the kitchen table:
That spatula isn't just for flippin' burgers. Swat your guy's ass with it to make this romp even more playful

5. In the woods:
Your two biggest risks are bugs and poison ivy. To fend off bugs, spray yourself with insect repellent beforehand…just not on your neck, breasts, or anywhere else your man may kiss or lick. As for poison ivy, remember: If there are leaves of three, let it be.

4. In the pool or a body of water:
Ironically, water sex can actually dry up your natural lubrication. Use a silicone-based lube (which is waterproof) and then try out Cosmo's Aqua Kama Sutra positions, like Tawdry Tube.

3. In your childhood bedroom:
If your parents are in the next room, keep quiet with a sex position that is still ultra-pleasurable but won't shake the headboards. Try Soft Rock or Wow-Him Powwow, in which you are gently rocking instead of thrusting.

2. In a car:
People often think the backseat is best for car sex. But there's not much leg room. Recline the passenger seat instead and try a girl-on-top position.

1. In the shower or bathtub:
Take turns lathering each other up and teasing yourselves into a frenzy before going all the way. Have two, warm fluffy towels handy — or one big one that you can wrap yourselves in — to keep the comfy after-sex buzz going.

~curtesy of cosmopolitan

**Ways to entice your lover**

~ be spontaneous.
~Invite him to the movies then fondle him.
~Unzip his zipper and play with his balls.
~Have him so hot to trot he will want to rip your clothes off before you make it inside your home.
~ touch him: whenever you can touch your man. Small touches on the arm, the butt, run your hands along his crotch area.
~When you walk by him lightly tough his neck. Kiss him periodically for no reason. Flash him. Show him a 3 second preview of your ass and tits
~ be shocking: do something you have never done before to your partner.
~Pulling your thong aside for him to enter you torments him because he can’t see every last inch of your body. It also creates gotta-have-you-now urgency that is just so hot
~get wet: shower together.
~Have sex in the shower.
~Give him a blow job. Strangely enough the shower helps with gag reflex. I don’t understand it but it’s true. Having the water wash over your back and having your mouth on your mans’ penis is so sensual.
~The heat just adds to the passion. He in turn will provide the same service of kissing your special place and you will enter different heights in your relationship.

~Bedroom tip #18 ~ The Venus Butterfly

Here's another classic technique that's become legendary. It all started
with an episode of the 80's TV series "L.A. Law." They referred to it
several times, but never even hinted as to how it was actually done. That
show generated more mail than any other episode. Everybody was
asking, "How do you do The Venus Butterfly?" Now, you'll finally know.

Here's What You Need:
One bottle of water-based lubricant.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back, her knees bent and
legs slightly apart. Apply a little lubricant to your hands.
Put your hands together, as if you were saying a prayer. Bend each of
your ring fingers down. The tip of your left ring finger should be touching
the knuckle of your right ring finger; the tip of your right ring finger should
be touching the knuckle of your left ring finger. All of your other fingers
should remain extended.
Now comes the "ladies choice" part of this technique. In the classic
Venus Butterfly, your extended pinkies would be inserted into your
woman's anus. Many women prefer that, instead, you simply fold your
pinkies over like your ring fingers (it's totally a matter of personal
preference).
Next, insert your middle fingers into her vagina. Your index fingers
should be placed on both sides of your woman's clitoris.
Keeping your fingers together, open your palms so that your thumbs are
about three inches apart. Begin to rub your fingers back and forth, as if
you were trying to warm them. When you do this, your hands will
resemble a butterfly flapping its wings.

~Bedroom Tip #16 ~ Seltzer-gasm

This is a fun way to let your woman experience something she never has
before: thousands of tiny bubbles swirling around her most sensitive
area. Be sure to use the "Gold" variety of the world's most popular tablet.
It's had the medicinal ingredients removed.

Here's What You Need:
One glass of water.
One effervescent bicarbonate tablet without aspirin.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent
and legs slightly apart.
Break the tablet into four quarters.
Place the rounded edge of one quarter tablet between the top-most
portion of your woman's vaginal lips. Insert only enough of the tablet to
hold it in place.
Take a small sip of water and keep it in your mouth.
Press your lips against the portion of her vagina holding the tablet and
open them so that a small stream of water trickles out. This should
activate the tablet and release bubbles around her vagina.
Get into some serious oral pleasuring. When necessary, take another
sip of water. If needed, replace the tablet with a fresh piece.
Continue until your woman says, "Oh, what a relief it is."

~Bedroom tip #15 ~ Baby Elephant Trunks

This technique feels so good that there's actually two versions of it.
Thanks to our dedicated research team, we're happy to provide you with
both.

Here's What You Need:
One bottle of water-based lubricant.

Here's How You Do It:
Version One:
Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent
and legs slightly apart.
Apply a little lubricant to the backs of both of your hands, including your
wrists and fingertips.
Extend one of your hands, palm down. Curl your fingers inward halfway
to the palm. Place the wrist of that hand against the bottom portion of
your woman's vagina.
Using smooth strokes, glide your entire hand, including your fingers, up
and over her vagina and clitoris.
Immediately repeat using the other hand, performing the exact same
motion. It kind of looks like you're painting a fence; except you're never
stroking down -- always up.
Version Two:
Have your woman get on all fours and perform the same technique from
behind her (this reverses the motion).

~Bedroom tip #14 ~ Chinese Field Goal

The next time you order Chinese take-out, ask for the free pair of
chopsticks and give this technique a try. It lets your woman feel your
tongue in areas that you normally could not reach.

Here's What You Need:
One pair of chopsticks.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent
and legs slightly apart.
Whip out the chopsticks. If they're made of wood, make certain there are
no splinters (it's amazing how one, loan splinter can ruin your entire
evening).
Place each chopstick along the outer edge of your woman's vaginal lips.
Use your thumb and fingers to gently roll each fold of skin around the
chopstick. You need to do this before her vagina gets too moist;
otherwise, her skin will not want to remain rolled up around the
chopsticks.
The chopsticks will now resemble goal posts. Your tongue is going to be
the football. To kick a field goal, you must place the football between the
goal posts and indulge in some serious oral pleasuring.
When your woman has achieved a terrific orgasm, give yourself three
points.

~Bedroom tip #13 ~ Showergasm

Women have been pleasuring themselves this way for years. Now it's
your turn.

Here's What You Need:
One hand-held shower massager.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. You, too.
Adjust the water to a comfortable temperature and activate the shower
massager.
Slowly run the water over your woman's legs, thighs and stomach. With
your free hand, gently stroke and caress the inner thighs and bikini line.
Place the first and second fingers of your free hand on each side of her
vagina. Gently push the skin up and out, exposing the clitoris.
Point the jets of water at the clitoris, making sure that the stream is not
too hot or forceful. Do not hold the massager too close to your woman.
Start from as far back as you can, slowly moving closer (your woman can
tell you if any adjustments need to be made).
Continue until you induce a powerful and satisfying orgasm.

~Bedroom tip #12 ~ The Tasmanian Jack-knife

If you've ever wanted to stimulate those hard-to-reach spots inside your
woman's vagina, this is the position to try.

Here's What You Need:
Just the two of you.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. You, too.
Have her lie down on either her left or right side.
Tell your woman to take whichever leg is on top and raise it towards her
chest so that her foot is resting on her other leg's knee.
Enter your woman from behind. She will be astonished at how deep you
can plunge yourself inside of her.
Continue this position until she's "done-dee."