~Bedroom Tip 37~ Cotton Can-delight

You've probably awakened many mornings and realized that "the circus

was in town." Now's your chance to give your woman a special treat
straight from under the big top.


Here's What You Need:

One cone of cotton candy.                


Here's How You Do It:


Get your woman naked. Have lie on her back with her knees bent and
legs slightly apart.
Take the cotton candy and run it along the length of your woman's body.
Brush it against her face and let her enjoy both the smell and feel of it.
Break off a small piece of cotton candy and place it on the tip of your
extended tongue. Give your woman a deep, long, open-mouthed kiss.
Break off another piece and place it on your tongue. Press it to one of
your woman's nipples, then surround it with your mouth. As you close
your mouth, the cotton candy will dissolve. Gently suck the melted candy
from her nipple. Repeat with the other nipple.
Put another piece of cotton candy on your tongue and, this time, press it
to your woman's vagina. Let the combined moisture dissolve the cotton
candy in a sugary, tangy nectar.
Pleasure your woman orally, adding extra cotton candy as needed.

~ Bedroom Tip 36 ~ Aphrodite's Ladder

If you've ever made love on a set of stairs, you're already aware of some

of the incredible positions you can come up with. Here's a romantic
technique that guarantees the two of you will never walk up that
particular flight the same way again.

Here's What You Need:

One flight of stairs.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. You, too.

Have your woman sit on the second stair from the bottom (this may vary
depending on your respective heights, but the second stair usually works
best).

You remain standing at the bottom of the staircase. Lean forward and
place your hands on either side of your woman, like you're doing an
inclined push-up.
Prepare to enter you woman. Before you do, though, you must tell her
the following:

"On each of these steps is one of the reasons that I love you. Whenever
you like, move up another step and I will give you another reason. I love
you because..." and then give her your first reason.
Now you may enter your woman. After about thirty seconds, she's going
to push herself up to the next step. When she does, you must give her
your next reason. Then you may take a step up, enter her again and
continue.

Your woman can have as many orgasms as she likes, but YOU must wait
until she is perched at the top of the staircase before you can have yours.
Only then have you successfully climbed Aphrodite's Ladder

~Bedroom tip #31 ~ Flower-gasm

You can't go wrong giving a woman roses. Here's a unique, romantic
technique that will touch her heart as well as a more erotic location on
her body.

Here's What You Need:
One thornless rose.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back.
Hold the rose over her stomach. Glide the rose over your woman's skin
while simultaneously twirling it back and forth between your fingers.
Brush the rose over her breasts, cleavage, neck, face and arms. Move it
down her legs and let the rose tickle her toes. Finally, stroke your
woman's vagina with the rose until she's ready for something a little
more stimulating.
Now pull a single petal from the rose and place it on the tip of your
forefinger. Gently press the soft, silky rose petal to your woman's clitoris.
Imagine the numeral "8" laid on its side. That's the pattern you want to
trace with your finger on and around her aroused clitoris (the petal
should follow your finger).
Vary the patterns you trace, as well as the intensity with which you press,
until you find just the right combination to bring your woman to a
romantic, unforgettable climax.

~Bedroom Tip #21~ Oriental Shoe Shine

Here's an incredibly stimulating technique that gets its name from the
back and forth motion you perform with a silk scarf.

Here's What You Need:
One long silk scarf.
One short silk scarf.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Use the short silk scarf to blindfold her and
have her stand with her legs slightly apart.
Now you stand at your woman's side, facing her.
Run the long silk scarf gently over your woman's body. Let her feel it on
her arms, breasts, buttocks and legs. After a couple of minutes, place the
scarf in between your woman's legs. Hold one end in front of her, the
other behind. Essentially, she should be straddling the scarf.
Raise both ends of the scarf above your woman's midsection so that the
middle barely touches her clitoris and vagina. Glide the scarf back and
forth as if you were "buffing" this delicate area. The longer your strokes,
the better.
Next, lie down on your back with your head in between your woman's
feet. Tell her to kneel and, as she does, drape the scarf over your mouth.
Using your hands, guide your woman's hips so that her vagina is
positioned directly above your mouth. Pleasure your woman orally
through the smooth, silk scarf.

**Places To Have Sex**

10. In the laundry room:
Sitting on the washer instead of the dryer. When the spin cycle starts, let loose with your guy

9. In your parents' bedroom:
Ask your guy ahead of time to refrain from any phrases like "Who's your daddy?" That's just too close to home for this setting.

8. In a tent:
Since you're screened in and the tent walls may be flimsy, we suggest you keep your sex positions simple. Try Saucy Spoons or Backup Boogie.

7. At a park:
We'll leave you to your own devices for this one. Just be courteous and wipe down the swing when you're done!

6. On the kitchen table:
That spatula isn't just for flippin' burgers. Swat your guy's ass with it to make this romp even more playful

5. In the woods:
Your two biggest risks are bugs and poison ivy. To fend off bugs, spray yourself with insect repellent beforehand…just not on your neck, breasts, or anywhere else your man may kiss or lick. As for poison ivy, remember: If there are leaves of three, let it be.

4. In the pool or a body of water:
Ironically, water sex can actually dry up your natural lubrication. Use a silicone-based lube (which is waterproof) and then try out Cosmo's Aqua Kama Sutra positions, like Tawdry Tube.

3. In your childhood bedroom:
If your parents are in the next room, keep quiet with a sex position that is still ultra-pleasurable but won't shake the headboards. Try Soft Rock or Wow-Him Powwow, in which you are gently rocking instead of thrusting.

2. In a car:
People often think the backseat is best for car sex. But there's not much leg room. Recline the passenger seat instead and try a girl-on-top position.

1. In the shower or bathtub:
Take turns lathering each other up and teasing yourselves into a frenzy before going all the way. Have two, warm fluffy towels handy — or one big one that you can wrap yourselves in — to keep the comfy after-sex buzz going.

~curtesy of cosmopolitan

~Bedroom tip #18 ~ The Venus Butterfly

Here's another classic technique that's become legendary. It all started
with an episode of the 80's TV series "L.A. Law." They referred to it
several times, but never even hinted as to how it was actually done. That
show generated more mail than any other episode. Everybody was
asking, "How do you do The Venus Butterfly?" Now, you'll finally know.

Here's What You Need:
One bottle of water-based lubricant.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back, her knees bent and
legs slightly apart. Apply a little lubricant to your hands.
Put your hands together, as if you were saying a prayer. Bend each of
your ring fingers down. The tip of your left ring finger should be touching
the knuckle of your right ring finger; the tip of your right ring finger should
be touching the knuckle of your left ring finger. All of your other fingers
should remain extended.
Now comes the "ladies choice" part of this technique. In the classic
Venus Butterfly, your extended pinkies would be inserted into your
woman's anus. Many women prefer that, instead, you simply fold your
pinkies over like your ring fingers (it's totally a matter of personal
preference).
Next, insert your middle fingers into her vagina. Your index fingers
should be placed on both sides of your woman's clitoris.
Keeping your fingers together, open your palms so that your thumbs are
about three inches apart. Begin to rub your fingers back and forth, as if
you were trying to warm them. When you do this, your hands will
resemble a butterfly flapping its wings.

~Bedroom tip #17 ~ The Indian Rocking Horse

Here's a great position that allows for extra-deep penetration.

Here's What You Need:
Just the two of you.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. You, too.
Enter your woman in the standard missionary position.
Now, both of you sit up while you're still joined together. Have her put
her arms around your neck.
Put both of your arms between her legs, positioning your elbows under
her knees. Lift up and rest her calves or ankles on your shoulders.
Clasp your hands behind her back and rock your body back and forth.
Don't worry about about thrusting in and out; let the rocking motion do all
of the work.

~Bedroom Tip #16 ~ Seltzer-gasm

This is a fun way to let your woman experience something she never has
before: thousands of tiny bubbles swirling around her most sensitive
area. Be sure to use the "Gold" variety of the world's most popular tablet.
It's had the medicinal ingredients removed.

Here's What You Need:
One glass of water.
One effervescent bicarbonate tablet without aspirin.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent
and legs slightly apart.
Break the tablet into four quarters.
Place the rounded edge of one quarter tablet between the top-most
portion of your woman's vaginal lips. Insert only enough of the tablet to
hold it in place.
Take a small sip of water and keep it in your mouth.
Press your lips against the portion of her vagina holding the tablet and
open them so that a small stream of water trickles out. This should
activate the tablet and release bubbles around her vagina.
Get into some serious oral pleasuring. When necessary, take another
sip of water. If needed, replace the tablet with a fresh piece.
Continue until your woman says, "Oh, what a relief it is."

~Bedroom tip #14 ~ Chinese Field Goal

The next time you order Chinese take-out, ask for the free pair of
chopsticks and give this technique a try. It lets your woman feel your
tongue in areas that you normally could not reach.

Here's What You Need:
One pair of chopsticks.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent
and legs slightly apart.
Whip out the chopsticks. If they're made of wood, make certain there are
no splinters (it's amazing how one, loan splinter can ruin your entire
evening).
Place each chopstick along the outer edge of your woman's vaginal lips.
Use your thumb and fingers to gently roll each fold of skin around the
chopstick. You need to do this before her vagina gets too moist;
otherwise, her skin will not want to remain rolled up around the
chopsticks.
The chopsticks will now resemble goal posts. Your tongue is going to be
the football. To kick a field goal, you must place the football between the
goal posts and indulge in some serious oral pleasuring.
When your woman has achieved a terrific orgasm, give yourself three
points.

~Bedroom tip #13 ~ Showergasm

Women have been pleasuring themselves this way for years. Now it's
your turn.

Here's What You Need:
One hand-held shower massager.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. You, too.
Adjust the water to a comfortable temperature and activate the shower
massager.
Slowly run the water over your woman's legs, thighs and stomach. With
your free hand, gently stroke and caress the inner thighs and bikini line.
Place the first and second fingers of your free hand on each side of her
vagina. Gently push the skin up and out, exposing the clitoris.
Point the jets of water at the clitoris, making sure that the stream is not
too hot or forceful. Do not hold the massager too close to your woman.
Start from as far back as you can, slowly moving closer (your woman can
tell you if any adjustments need to be made).
Continue until you induce a powerful and satisfying orgasm.

~Bedroom tip #12 ~ The Tasmanian Jack-knife

If you've ever wanted to stimulate those hard-to-reach spots inside your
woman's vagina, this is the position to try.

Here's What You Need:
Just the two of you.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. You, too.
Have her lie down on either her left or right side.
Tell your woman to take whichever leg is on top and raise it towards her
chest so that her foot is resting on her other leg's knee.
Enter your woman from behind. She will be astonished at how deep you
can plunge yourself inside of her.
Continue this position until she's "done-dee."

~Bedroom tip #11 ~ Rescuing The Captain

What are you going to do when the Captain goes overboard? You've
got to rescue him, right?

Here's What You Need:
One wintergreen or peppermint breath mint with a hole.

Here's How You Do It:
Put the mint in your mouth and give it a couple of minutes to partially
dissolve. In the meantime, get you woman naked. Have her lie on her
back with her knees bent and legs slightly apart.
With the mint still in your mouth, arouse your woman by gently kissing
and licking her inner thighs, bikini line and vagina.
If your woman is sufficiently aroused, you should be able to spot the
clitoris. That's the "Captain." It's your job to rescue him.
Move the mint to the tip of your tongue. Press the mint against your
woman's clitoris and release it.
Using suction, draw the clitoris through the hole in the mint. Flick your
tongue as rapidly as you can over the clitoris and mint.
Only when your woman reaches orgasm have you successfully "rescued
the Captain."
If you want to create an entire "Titanic" theme, place an ice cube in your
woman's navel.

~Bedroom tip #10 ~ The Dutch Drawbridge

Here's a terrific position that heightens the stimulation of the top portion
of your woman's vagina.

Here's What You Need:
Just the two of you.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. You, too.
Sit up in the bed with your legs extended in front of you.
Have your woman kneel above you, straddling your lap. Then, lower her
down until you are inside of her.
Now have your woman lean all the way back until her head is resting on
your legs or ankles. Her knees should be bent so that her feet are
underneath her buttocks.
You're not going to be able to thrust yourself into her with the same force
you can achieve from, say, the missionary position. But the thrusts you
do provide will be magnified in their intensity based on the angle at
which you are entering her.

~Bedroom tip #9 ~ Mint Two-lip

The cooling sensation of peppermint has never been put to better use
than in this technique. Your woman will love it.
Here's What You Need:
One glass of peppermint schnapps.

Here's How You Do It:

Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent
and legs slightly apart.
Pour a small amount of schnapps into your woman's navel.
Dip the tip of your tongue into the schnapps and trace small circles
around one of your woman's nipples. Blow on it to accentuate the cool
feeling.
Do the same thing to her other nipple.
Again, dip your tongue into the pool of schnapps you've poured into her
navel. Run your tongue along both sides of her vagina and gently blow.
Pleasure your woman orally, pausing to reapply the schnapps to your
tongue.

Regular Sex increases lifespan

So there has been a medical study that has been strongly suggested that having sex 400 times a year can increase your lifespan by 6 years.

Enjoying the sexual act 4 times a week is what it takes to increase your health.

The reason for this is the immunity system. The act of sex releases hormones into the body and also works against loneliness and depression.

Touch is necessary for mammals to thrive. Animals and babies deprived of physical touch are sickly and do not develop normally.

Cementing relationships:

• Touching helps create bonds. These bonds provide vital social support and other benefits known to be linked to life expectancy.
  

Increases self-esteem:

• Self-esteem is largely our perception of worth. Frequent touching is a way to communicate worth to one another.
  

Provides physical stimulus:

• It is possible that touch releases hormones and other substances much like relaxation and meditation.
• To maintain an active sex life as you age follow the following advice:
  Be open and honest with your partner about needs, interests, and desires
  Seek help for any problems that might arise
  Keep exercising to maintain your libido
  Keep a healthy weight and blood pressure

~Bedroom tip #8 ~ Parad-ice

Here's another classic technique that's become a standard today thanks to the movie "9 1/2 Weeks." If your woman is somewhat shy, it's a great
way to introduce some new things in the bedroom. Even if she's not shy,
it still feels terrific.

Here's What You Need:
One ice cube.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back.
Put the ice cube in your mouth. Open your mouth slightly and use your
tongue to push the cube to the front of your mouth. A small portion of the
cube should be sticking out beyond your lips.
Slowly glide the cube over your woman's neck, breasts, stomach, thighs
and legs.
Hold your head about six inches above one of your woman's nipples.
Let a few drops of melted ice fall onto and trickle down her nipple. If it's
not already, her nipple will become fully erect.
Do the same thing with the other nipple.
Take the ice cube back into your mouth completely. Rub the tip of your
tongue over the cube so that it becomes cold.
Pleasure your woman orally, pausing to rub the tip of your tongue back
over the cube whenever necessary.

~Bedroom tip #7 ~ The Cotton Spritzer

This is a very romantic technique that not only pleases your woman -- it
gives you a little bit of a buzz, too.

Here's What You Need:
One pair of cotton panties.
One bottle of wine.

Here's How You Do It:
Have your woman strip down to nothing but her cotton panties (make
sure the panties are cotton; nylon just doesn't cut it for this one).
With your woman standing, kneel down in front of her.
Pull the waistline of her panties toward you, creating an opening about
two inches wide.
Pour a small amount of wine into the panties and release. Let the wine
soak the crotch of the panties as well as your woman's vagina.
Now place your mouth against the crotch of her panties and suck the
wine through the fabric and into your mouth. Don't be surprised as your
woman presses her hips against your face -- this is extremely erotic.
Do this three or four times, then set down the bottle of wine.
Gather the crotch of your woman's panties together in one hand.
Position your open mouth underneath and squeeze hard. This should
wring out a small trickle of wine from her panties onto your tongue.
Keep holding the crotch of her panties in your hand and pull them to one
side. Now pleasure your woman orally until she explodes in a delicious
orgasm.

~Bedroom Tip #6~ The Standing Wrap

If you can manage it, this is a position she'll never forget.

Here's What You Need: Just the two of you.

Here's How You Do It: Get your woman naked. You, too. Sit on the edge of the bed and have your woman stand in front of you. Tell your woman to place one leg on the bed, then the other, and sit on your lap as your enter her. Now that she's sitting on your lap with you inside of her, have her place her arms around your neck and wrap her legs around your waist. After she's done this, stand up. Put your arms under her buttocks to help stabilize her. Walk to the nearest wall and let your woman's back rest against it. Now you're ready to thrust in and out of your woman as you hold her pinned against the wall. Continue until she reaches an indescribable orgasm, or the neighbors start banging on the wall. In that case, switch walls and keep going!

~Bedroom tip #5 ~ Cotton Spritzer

This is a very romantic technique that not only pleases your woman -- it
gives you a little bit of a buzz, too.

Here's What You Need:
One pair of cotton panties.
One bottle of wine.

Here's How You Do It:
Have your woman strip down to nothing but her cotton panties (make
sure the panties are cotton; nylon just doesn't cut it for this one).
With your woman standing, kneel down in front of her.
Pull the waistline of her panties toward you, creating an opening about
two inches wide.
Pour a small amount of wine into the panties and release. Let the wine
soak the crotch of the panties as well as your woman's vagina.
Now place your mouth against the crotch of her panties and suck the
wine through the fabric and into your mouth. Don't be surprised as your
woman presses her hips against your face -- this is extremely erotic.
Do this three or four times, then set down the bottle of wine.
Gather the crotch of your woman's panties together in one hand.
Position your open mouth underneath and squeeze hard. This should
wring out a small trickle of wine from her panties onto your tongue.
Keep holding the crotch of her panties in your hand and pull them to one
side. Now pleasure your woman orally until she explodes in a delicious
orgasm.

~Bedroom tip #4 ~ Sicillian Corkscrew

Here's a great hand technique that will drive your woman wild.

Here's How You Do It:
Get your woman naked. Have her lie on her back with her knees bent
and her legs open wide.
Sit "Indian-style" between your woman's legs.
Cross the index and middle fingers of one of your hands (you know, the
traditional "keep your fingers crossed" gesture).
Slowly insert your crossed fingers into your woman's vagina. As you do
this, rotate your forearm back and forth. Insert your fingers deep enough
so that your thumb is now brushing her clitoris from side to side as your
forearm rotates.
Continue until you pop your woman's cork.